Wednesday, May 13, 2015

It is springtime in New England in all it's glory. This first picture is the dogwood outside my hotel.
Meet G. She is my niece's cat, a stone cold killer, and Sophie's new BFF.
Here we have Zoe and Izzy in my sister's backyard. Sophie doesn't want much to do with them even though they are sweet girls.
After my mom arrived, we headed out to the Museum of Fine Arts in Boston for a tour of the DaVinci exhibit and a look around. The next shot was taken out the second story window. It is their Japanese Zen Garden. The sand looks like snow. Beautiful.
And the hall has all these dummies hanging around. Leslie says she doesn't like them because it reminds her of when the twin towers fell. I get that. She and Anna hammed it up with one of them for me anyway.



My girl Lucy has been gone a week and I still can hardly believe it. This is what she looked like when we rescued her. She had a good life and she certainly enriched mine. We miss her so much.



Tuesday, May 12, 2015

Berkeley Springs

My BFF Stacy and I had a quiet laid back visit in Berkeley Springs. We hung out with Sophie, checked out the little town, found a great restaurant: Tari's Cafe, (and if you ever go, you must try it out; it is also an art gallery so lots to take in -visually and orally!- haha), and went to a quilt show - bonus!
The Baths. George Washington's bathtub is on the upper left. No, seriously!

Scenic overlook where you can see Pennsylvania, West Virginia and Maryland.
The second day here, Sophie finally wagged her tail and seemed more herself. Thankfully. She does love her Aunt Stacy and they spent the nights together. The house we were in was a bit of a nightmare. There were giant carpenter bees devouring the house and we got swarmed whenever we walked outside. A bit like a science fiction movie.
holes in the cabin from bees
sawdust generated by bees - zoiks!
The Delectable Mountain Quilt Guild had a small quilt displayed in each of the local downtown businesses and then there was the show. Very nice and here are a few of the quilts because I know you want to see them. Nice to get a little quilt-y fix in West Virginia.


I'm writing from Massachusetts today. Sophie and I left West Virginia early yesterday morning and had a 10 hour slog through Maryland, Pennsylvania, New Jersey, New York, Connecticut. Did I miss any? Usually Connecticut is the worst but this spring it was Pennsylvania. Stuck for an hour-and-a-half in the middle of nowhere surrounded by giant trucks. I played the harmonica and Sophie sang along from the back seat. No, really! I swear I am not making this up. Helped pass the time. We were in time for dinner with my sister and bro-in-law and my mom flies in today. It will be nice to be together.




Saturday, May 9, 2015


Nothing like sewing to put one in the moment. And that's what keeps me sane. This will be a quilt for my friend Lu-Elaine, a lover of pastels. (All that pink . . . ugh) I think she will love it. And the next top is for my modern niece, Annie, and was supposed to be delivered at Christmas. I ran out of the gray to piece the back so will look at Alewives for more when I get up to Maine - ah well, the best laid plans . . . Fun (and therapeutic) to work on such different styles and fabrics.

Sophie and I have started the trek north. Lulu was definitely our pack leader and we are feeling rudderless and sad.

ready to go...I guess
Leaving The Fabulous Florida Keys

We ran into heavy rain leaving Florida but after a few hours it cleared and we could see the beautiful springtime greens.
The rolling hills of North Carolina

We've landed here in West Virginia to meet up with my friend, Stacy. We decided to go someplace new this year and are right outside of Berkeley Springs so more on that later when we go into town to "take the waters".

It is so strange to be traveling without our Lucy. I realize Sophie took most of her cues from Lulu and she is lost without her. I hope she will find her own way. For me, there is a huge hole in my life that she filled. I know time heals but we are going to need a lot of it.

Thursday, April 30, 2015

I lost another family member this week. My precious Lucy.

Lucy in her beloved Maine woods
She was an amazing dog. She was born in a puppy mill and sold as a Christmas puppy. At a year old she was abandoned in the Everglades, pregnant. A recent x-ray showed she had been shot at some point. When she arrived at the shelter, she had lost half of her body weight. She was always grateful for her rescue and proved it with her daily devotion. When my husband left me, Lucy rescued me. I could not have kept going without her. Since then, she has been my - and Sophie's - closest and constant companion, best friend. I am so thankful for her presence in my life, so grateful that she was with me for 13 years. I cannot believe I will never see her again.




Sunday, April 26, 2015

My dad died on Friday morning.  
He was a fabulous guy and it is difficult to imagine that we'll never see him again. I am ever so grateful I got to spend the last few months with him. 


Stebbins, William Cooper

William Cooper Stebbins, University of Michigan professor emeritus of otorhinolaryngology in the Medical School; professor emeritus of psychology in the College of Literature, Science, and the Arts; and retired associate dean of the Rackham Graduate School, died on Friday, April 24, 2015 in Ann Arbor. He was 85.

Dr. Stebbins was born in Watertown, New York on June 6, 1929 to Jean Reginald Stebbins and Kathleen Heile.  He graduated from The Hotchkiss School in 1947 and from Yale University in 1951.  He served in the Medical Service Corps in the United States Army at Walter Reed Army Medical Center in Washington D. C. from 1951 until 1953.  He was married to the former Kathryn Jones in 1953.  He took his Ph.D. degree from Columbia in Experimental Psychology in 1957. He taught at Hamilton College from 1957 until 1961 when he was awarded a National Institutes of Health post-doctoral fellowship in Physiology and Biophysics in the Physiology Department at the University of Washington in Seattle.

In 1963 at the completion of his fellowship he accepted a faculty position at the University of Michigan in Ann Arbor jointly in the Department of Psychology and in the Kresge Hearing Research Institute where he remained until his retirement in 1996. His research centered on Bioacoustics, specifically on laboratory studies of animal hearing and communication and he wrote or edited 7 books, 30 chapters, and more than 100 research papers in this area.

As a member of the faculty at Michigan he taught undergraduate and graduate courses in Psychology in addition to working closely with his colleague Professor David Moody and his undergraduate students, graduate students and postdoctoral students in his laboratory.  In addition he taught an interdisciplinary course in Primate Behavior for students in Biology, Anthropology, and Psychology. He served on many faculty committees, was elected a member of the Senate Advisory Committee on University Affairs in 1984 and served as chair from 1986-1987. He also chaired the Tenure Committee, the University Budget Priorities Committee, and received the Distinguished Faculty Governance Award for his participation in faculty governance. In addition, he served as Associate Dean for Faculty Programs in the Rackham Graduate School for three years and was chair of the Graduate Program in the Department of Psychology.

At the national level, Professor Stebbins served as president of the Association for Research in Otolaryngology, was a study section member of NINCDS, and was active in the American Academy of Ophthalmology and Otorhinolaryngology. He also served on the external advisory committees for a number of institutions across the U.S., served on the editorial boards of numerous journals, and has been a reviewer for several funding agencies. He was elected a fellow in four national organizations: The American Association for the Advancement of Science, The Acoustical Society of America, The American Psychological Society, and The American Psychological Association. He was also a member of Sigma Xi, the International Primatological Society, the American Society of Primatologists and served for four years as a member of Study Section, a grant peer review committee, for the National Institute of Neurological Diseases and Blindness.

Professor Stebbins participated in many local organizations and became a board member of three and president of two: The Barton Boat Club devoted to sailboat racing, The Ann Arbor Figure Skating Club where he also served as a figure and dance judge. He was an avid bicycle rider and long-time member of the Ann Arbor Bicycle and Touring Society.   In retirement, he joined the United States Power Squadron and took many courses on marine navigation and piloting.  At their second home on Drummond Island, Michigan, he and his wife Katie spent many summers cruising Lake Huron, Lake Michigan, and the North Channel. He and his dog, Rose, were members of Therapy Dogs International and spent many years visiting nursing homes in Michigan, Florida, and Canada.

He is survived by his wife, Katie; his three daughters, Elisabeth, Leslie, and Rebecca; his son-in-law Tom Blumenthal; his three grandchildren, Anna and Will Blumenthal, and Ryder Mosby, his sister, Kathy; and his beloved dog, Rose.

Memorial gifts can be made to the Michigan Alzheimer’s Disease Center (MADC), 1000 Oakbrook, Suite 100, Ann Arbor, Michigan 48104 or Planned Parenthood. A memorial service will be held at a later date.